The Hands of the
Teacher
A few suggestions
from a Father, Teacher, and former Marine
After 30 years in the classroom I am convinced that the personal example
the teacher sets before the student is the single most important reason
learning occurs. Example offers a behavioral definition of character
that may determine a student's perception of his own value, the value
of others, and reciprocal rights and responsibilities. Since emulation
is both an early and an on-going learning method and because everyone
passes through the hands of the teacher, the example of the teacher-leader
is, I believe, fundamental to the successful human experience.
When standards are personalized and manifest in teacher conduct, the
student's perception of other criteria for measuring other values and
options prior to decision-making becomes more and more comprehensible.
Such a comprehension may be considered critical to the student's personal
ability to anticipate consequences of choice and insure survival and
progress.
Because decision-making
is the proper domain of the mind in the hierarchy of the person (spirit/mind/body),
it is essential that enlarged opportunities for observation and awareness
be encouraged and available. Such opportunities go far toward raising
the qualitative level of selectivity on the part of the student. Additionally,
because selection occupies the fulcrum point of the creative process
in the individual, it is essential that criteria be available to the
intellect of the student in order that evaluation and progress will
occur.
We are reminded
that the unique individual person is the basic unit of value and a prime
source of social values in a free society.
Consistent with
a criteria concept and personalized value definition, the individual
student should continually experience high levels of challenge, expectation,
and goal orientation, eliciting and reinforcing standards of excellence.
Such a conceptual environment teaches, encourages, and reinforces valid
self-esteem.
It is thus that
the teacher completes the appropriate fulfillment of his role: Enabling
the student to become a self-directed, responsible, choicemaker in freedom.
* * *
1. Lead by Example. Be "out front." Be Transparent. Coercion
and Control are not the same as Influence.
2. Always respect Boundary, Sovereignty, and Domain. Expect and require
the same.
3. Keep your priorities in
Order. Allow them to govern your choices.
4. Define "rendering
unto..." the owner.
5. Weakness is not
humility or piousness. Act with courage - make assertions - take positions.
6. DO NOT BE CONTENT
WITH MEDIOCRITY or "averageness." We are called to EXCELLENCE.
7. No one can be
humble "on purpose" - as an act of will. Humility is the natural
result of recognizing Superiority. Making awareness of Superiority [Quality]
is our major task. When they "see' they will choose accordingly.
Until then - you and they may struggle.
8. Do not patronize
youngsters. Be more concerned with what they will think of you 20 years
from now. Do not seek your own popularity. You will be vulnerable and
they will spot it and use it against you and your purposes.
9. Expect intelligence.
Do not treat them as helpless. They will appreciate it and respond accordingly.
10. Have a sense of humor
- especially about the things that are yours.
11. Share the "Social
I.Q. Test." Q: "Can you tell the difference between what is
yours to decide about and what is NOT yours to decide about?" Hmmmmm?
12. Give the youngsters
[don't call them 'kids'] opportunities to make Choices from among alternatives
you supply. Encourage Creativity, Originality, and Responsibility.
13. ALWAYS measure
Human Value by the Individual - never by a group or plural-unit. [Is
there any other kind of human?] Groups are convenient verbalizations
about Individuals - not Reality.
14.A Build Individual
Value and regard for each UNIQUE person. [Gold is valuable because it
is RARE. How much more so the Unique Individual Person.] YOU are the
ONLY you in the history of the universe! Rarity is value. [Quality is
Value.]
14.B Add: Feelings
of inferiority and inadequacy are often the engine that drives the "rowdy"
machine. The Lord's 'price-tag' on each Individual will help to dissipate
such problems.
14.C Add: Responsibility?
No one will accept Responsibility above the level of their sense of
Self-Value.
15. Discuss these
suggestions openly. Allow opportunity for thought and incubation. Encourage
them to re-articulate in their own words.
16. Respect EFFORT
regardless of results. Even errors are learning experiences. Compliment
- do not flatter. [However, do not equate Effort with Accomplishment.]
17. Remember, we
are preparing them to go from 0% of making their own choices to 100%.
It is A Process of Preparation.
18. Don't be afraid of making
a "mistake" - as long as you're TRYING!
19. Learn ONE thing
at ONE time. This way, anyone can learn anything! Don't try to learn
it all at once. Be Teachable - learn one thing at one time.